My heart is breaking for you  / Morgen Nydegger (friend of Reids Mom )
I could have written this story.  It's so bizarre how similar our stories are.  I remember feeling the exact feelings you wrote about when I was told that my little angel Aiden was gone, and then having to go through natural labor as well.  I couldn't understand why they would make me do that.  Your little angel Reid will forever and always be with you in spirit and love.  I wish I were there right now so I could give you a big hug.  I am so sorry that you lost Reid.  He was, and will always be a miracle.
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Heaven / KENNY ALLORE (3RD.COUSIN)
Reid my little cuz......you'll always be, forever in our hearts. Close

What a beautiful angel you are!  / Diana Locke (friend of your mommy )
Oh Reid, what a beautiful angel you are! May your mommy and daddy find peace in knowing that you are in heaven and blowing angel kisses to them. Your mommy did a wonderful job on this site. I will pray for them. Close

Hugs From Heaven  / Peaches &. Desmond For Angel Tristan (Visitor to Site )

When you feel a gentle breeze
caress you when you sigh,
It's a hug sent from Heaven
from a loved one way up high.

If a soft and tender raindrop
lands upon your nose,
It's just a little angel's kiss
as fragile as a rose.

When you hear a song that fills you
with a feeling of sweet love,
It's a hug sent down from Heaven
from someone special up above.

If you wake up in the morning
to a bluebird's chirping song,
It's music sent from Heaven
to cheer you all day long.

If tiny little snowflakes
land upon your face,
It's a whisper sent from Heaven
all trimmed with angel lace.

So let your heart be joyful
if you're lonely, my dear friend,
Hugs that are sent from Heaven
a broken heart will mend.

~ Author Unknown ~ 

Please Listen to the Song Precious Child, by Karen Taylor Good
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"Reid James Mcmurter"  / Tina Temple (Passer)
"Reid James"
No greater gift has ever been given,
Then an Angel sent from above.
God gives us these gifts, sweet spirits from
             heaven,
To teach and to raise and to love.
Sometimes these gifts mean more than we know,
They are truly our greatest test.
God knows what we need to make our hearts 
            grow,
He only sends down his best.
This special spirit that God sent your way,
was beautiful, kind-hearted, and mild.
No one could have known that very special day,
He'd send Him in the form of a child.
He was amazing, and so sweet,
His parents, one brother, one sister
His grandparents forever to hold,
   In such a short time He has called from above,
He's been called back to Heaven you see.
This gift from above sent down to you in love,
A sweet spirit named  "Reid James"!! Close

" And God Said "  / Tina Temple (passer by )
I said, God I hurt
And God said, I know

I said, I cry alot
And God said, That's why I gave you
tears.

I said, Life is so hard
And God said, That's why I gave you 
loved ones

I said, But my loved one died!!
And God said, So did mine!!

I said, It's such a great loss!!
And God said, I saw mine nailed to a
cross!!

I said, But your loved one lives!!
And God said, So does yours!!

I said, Where is He now??
And God said, My son is by my side and
Your Son is in my arms!! Close

" When I left"  / Tina Temple (passer by )

When I left this world without you
I know it made you blue.
Your tears fell so freely,
I watched; I know this is true.

While you were weeping,
Days after I passed away-
While all was silent within me,
I saw you kneel to pray.

From this wonderful place called Heaven
Where all my pain is gone,
I send a gentel breeze to whisper,
"My loved Ones, please go on".

The peace that I have found here
Goes far beyond compare
No rain, No clouds, No suffering-
Just LOVE from everywhere.
you need not be troubled

Just stay close to God in prayer
Someday we'll be reunited
My LOVE, His love surrounds you always
EVERYWHERE!!

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Your Angel  / Loni Wendt (Angel Mom to Melissa )
I am so sorry for your loss. Reid is an adorable little angel. Know that he is always with you, watching over you and sending you his love. God bless you. Close

To Reid  / Debby Backus (none)
What a beautiful little baby boy,born on my daughter's birthday too! She went to be with Jesus 4 years ago and so loved babies,I'll almost bet she spoils you up there. My heart goes out to your parents,I know the heartache they feel,but I also know where you are,its more beautiful than they could ever imagine. kisses..... Close

Heavens Angel  / Diana Stafford (Angel Mom )

What a precious Angel Heaven received. May Memories carry you through the hard times as well as the good times. Always remember you are not alone in this grief of your precious Angel Reid .All Moms  all over the World walk with you on this road you travel on. Love & May Gods Peace Rest Upon You..

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thanks / Sharon Bryant (none)
just to say thank you for your kind words, i have nt got any answers to why siobhan died yet im still waiting, hugs to your angel he his beautiful, xxx Close

I am sorry for your loss  / Loni Wendt (Angel Mom )
Reid is a beautiful little angel. I am so sorry for your loss. Know that he is always with you, watching over you and sending you his love. God bless you. Close

thinking of you  / Sandy Vocaturo (someone who really cares )

What a great site to remember beautiful Reid.
 Thinking of you and your family, May you be surrounded by loved ones this holiday season,  and through this tough time in your live. our thoughts and prayers our with you,  We our so sorry you have to go through this
Sandy, joe , Matteo and Hailey

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SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!!  / Stephanie Julian (No relation just someone who went through this too!!! )
Hello I just read and looked at your beautiful website! It made me cry! I can relate to what you are going through. Ive been through it 3 times myself! My first son Issiah Claude Baker (Maiden Name) was born Dec. 29th,1997 and died Dec.31st,1997. It was so heart breaking I never thought the pain would end. I just wanted to die myself! The doctors told me this would never happen again. (Boy were they wrong!) He weighed 4 lbs and had a brain hemeridge.  My second son died almost like your son Reid. One week I was at my doctors appointment and heart beat was great. The next week at my ultra sound they said the baby had died. I remembered feeling a couple of punches about a week back and then nothing again. Zachary Simon Baker was born/died: May.30th,2000. He weighed 3 lbs and had to be delivered bum first. Doctors said he had spina bifida and heart problems. He was really deformed and to some he may have looked a mess but to me he was a beautiful Angel! Our third baby was a misscarrage at 3 months along. We didnt even know the sex of this baby. (Im pretty sure it was a boy though.) The misscarrage happend the night before are wedding on Feb.15th,2002. We have been trying ever since to have a baby from that point on and still no luck. I have basically given up hope! Iam now 30 years old and hubby is 26. We have no children of our own. Just take care of the nephews & neices and spoil them as if they were are own! If you ever want to talk about Reid or anything Iam hear to listen!!!! Please feel free to email me if you want too at  stephieaunt@yahoo.ca  May God bless you and your family at this rough time in your lives!!!! Merry Christmas to you all!!!! - Stephanie!!! Close

I am so sorry  / Erin Oneil (grieving mom )
I am so sorry for your loss, there are no words that make anything better.
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Please know others do care.  / Gail (just someone who cares )
I am so very sorry for the loss of your son.  I cannot imagine the grief & sadness that you have had to deal with.  Loosing our parents is painful enough, but a child is (to me) even more devastating.  May you find strength to meet each new day. Close

Beautiful / Kelly Wise (Friend of Mommy )

Sara,
What a beautiful tribute to your precious son. I love it and think it is wonderful that this site exists. May it bring you peace and comfort
Kelly W
Piper's Mommy

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thinking of you  / Christy Mitsdarffer (online fellow grieving mommy )
Oh, Sara... he is so precious.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Please know that he is playing in heaven with my twins.  God Bless.  Chris mommy to Twin Angels Jacqueline and Josephine  b/d 10-12-2006 to TTTS.  Close

In Memory Of Sweet Baby Reid  / Mandie Allen (Your Mommy's Online Friend )
Reid's the angel that family holds in their arms
Like a spirit but partially sundered from self.
Yet anchored in life by a love unrestrained,
Self-serving by serving that self be sustained,
He dances with grace on both sides of the gulf,
An angel whose wisdom is one of his charms!


Children who die are not really gone,
But go to a place that is something like home,
Where they sleep the deep sleep, as quiet as stone,
Until we can join them when our lives are done.

Children who die are not really dead,
But just like good children tucked into bed,
Wait the long wait while we go ahead
Till our tales are all told and our tears are all shed.

Children who die feel no pleasure or pain
In the place where they wait till they see us again,
And all of us dance in a world washed with rain
Where the sun shines so brightly no sorrows remain. Close

link / Sara
www.groups.yahoo.com/group/babylove25/ Close